Here you'll
learn all about me: my interests and hobbies, the people in my family, and more. I've even included a list of my favorite
links to other sites.
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On this home page,
I'll introduce myself and talk about my reasons for wanting a web site. I might put a picture of myself on this page...or
just a picture that I especially like.
What's New?
Here
I might add an entry whenever I make an update to my web site. Where appropriate, I'll include a link to the change.
The main theme of her book -- and her catchy metaphor -- is that if you want to find love, you've got to turn on your charm
and your availability to attract it. Nancy says that when she hears women (and men) complain that they haven't found love,
her response is: what have you done to bring love into your life?
Spend 15 hours a week putting yourself out there. Many people instinctively balk at this number, but
if you think about the time you spend pursuing other interests, your search for love should get the same effort. Plus, once
you're in a relationship, you'll be spending at least this amount of time together. Go to coffee shops, take a new class,
or do some online dating!
Let him do the chasing. It's controversial and seems anti-feminist, but Nancy believes that it's the
men who should be doing the calling and date planning-initially. She's quick to stress that she doesn't believe in playing
hard to get or listening to The Rules. She just thinks that men who are truly interested and serious about a woman
will make the effort to pursue in the beginning of the relationship. It's a way to separate the wheat from the chaff. So relax
and follow his lead initially.
Don't play hard to get, be hard to get. Nancy says, and I agree, that love comes knocking when
you are busy with your own life. You've got to keep your cablight on, but don't wait around or put your life on hold until
you have a man. You never know who you might meet simply by living your life.
Sex doesn't equal a relationship. If you decide to do it, you can't assume he's going to commit. Make
your boundaries clear before you get into the bedroom. A long explanation isn't necessary. Just say, "I'm not comfortable
having sex unless I'm in an exclusive relationship." That's it. The ball is in his court.